Dinosaur Stomps and Roars: Channeling Anger Into Playful Movement

Introduction

If you’ve read “I Want a Popsicle!: A Story About Dealing with Anger” with your child, you’re already familiar with one of Eden’s favorite ways to release her big feelings: pretending to be a roaring, stomping dinosaur.

As an Asian mom and psychologist, I’ve seen how powerful physical play can be in helping kids manage anger. Stomping and roaring might look silly, but it’s actually a meaningful way for children to channel their frustration into something positive. In this post, we’ll explore why this works, how you can practice it at home, and how it can strengthen your bond with your child.

Why Dinosaur Stomps and Roars Work

Anger can feel overwhelming for kids because it isn’t just emotional—it’s physical too. When children are upset, their bodies are flooded with adrenaline, and they often feel the urge to yell, stomp, or lash out. Pretending to be a dinosaur helps in three key ways:

• Energy Release: Stomping and roaring allow kids to burn off the extra energy that comes with anger.

• Emotional Expression: It gives them a safe and constructive way to express their feelings.

• Playful Redirection: Turning anger into a game helps shift their focus from frustration to fun, making it easier for them to calm down.
  

In “I Want a Popsicle!”, Eden uses this technique to manage her anger about not getting a popsicle right away. It’s a simple but effective strategy that any child can learn.

 

How to Practice Dinosaur Stomps and Roars at Home

Here’s how you can bring this strategy from the book into your daily life:

1. Set the Stage

• When your child feels angry, gently suggest: “I see you’re really mad. Let’s pretend to be dinosaurs and stomp it out like Eden!”

• Lead by example: “I’m a big T-Rex! ROAR!”

2. Encourage Movement

• Invite your child to stomp around the room or backyard, pretending to be a giant dinosaur.

• Ask playful questions to keep them engaged: “What kind of dinosaur are you? How big are your stomps?”

3. Guide the Roars

• Show them how to roar loudly: “Let’s roar as loud as we can to let out all that mad energy!”

• Gradually encourage softer roars to help them transition to calmness.

4. Acknowledge Their Feelings

• After the activity, sit together and say, “Wow, you were such a strong dinosaur! Do you feel better now? I’m proud of you for sharing your feelings.”

 

When to Use This Strategy

This technique is especially helpful in moments when your child needs a physical outlet for their emotions, such as:

• After Hearing ‘No’: Channel their frustration into stomping instead of yelling or crying.

• During Conflicts: Redirect arguments between siblings by inviting everyone to be dinosaurs.

• At the End of the Day: Use it to release pent-up energy before winding down for bedtime.

Cultural Reflections: Play as a Bridge Between Emotions and Family Values

In many Asian families, openly expressing anger isn’t always encouraged, and restraint is often valued. But finding playful ways to release big emotions—like dinosaur stomps and roars—balances this with the need for healthy emotional expression.

 

As a mom, I’ve found that blending play with emotional validation not only helps my daughter feel understood but also strengthens our bond. It shows her that all emotions, even anger, are normal and okay.

Conclusion

Pretending to be a dinosaur might seem simple, but it’s a powerful tool for helping kids release anger and learn emotional regulation. By practicing this playful technique with your child, you’re teaching them to manage their feelings while reminding them that they’re loved and supported.

 

How has your family been using this strategy since reading “I Want a Popsicle!”? Share your stories in the comments or tag me on social media—I’d love to hear about your roaring dinosaurs and stomping adventures!