Why Toddlers Hit When They're Angry, and What to Do Next

Quick answer: Toddler hitting and biting can feel mortifying, but they are often developmental.

This answer page gives families the short version. For the fuller story and examples, read the original article.

What to remember

  • Why Toddlers Hit or Bite
  • What to Do in the Moment
  • What to Teach After Everyone Is Calm

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Quick answers

What is Why Toddlers Hit When They're Angry, and What to Do Next about?

Toddler hitting and biting can feel mortifying, but they are often developmental.

Who is this for?

This page is for parents, caregivers, teachers, and other caring adults who want simple language for helping children with big feelings.

What can I do next?

Start with one small, steady response that fits your child, read the full article for more context, and talk with a qualified professional if a behavior feels unsafe, frequent, or worrying.